Growing up I spent most of my time reading novels and watching television. In all of the stories I read and all the shows I watched. I never really saw Muslim women. The only time I saw Muslim women were in the news, which I barely paid attention to. In all of the stories I…
Abubakar Adam Ibrahim's season of crimson blossom's is a book whose theme doesn't conform to northern Nigeria's Muslim conservative reputation. Theme's of sexual immorality, drugs, and corruption is evident in the story. What amazes me and every other person who picks up the book to read is the affair between Hajiya Binta, a retired school…
The culture of silence surrounding domestic violence is common in many cultures across the world. Women are made to feel shame for being victims of violence and are therefore not willing to report the crimes committed against them. But the violence itself, not the chaos, is what tears families apart.
In Northern Nigeria, this culture…
"My pastor paid ten Naira as bride price for his wife" I overheard this statement while shopping once. The women chatting found the amount ridiculous at the time and so did I. It was just as ridiculous as the pictures of food items, tools and money I had seen on Instagram meant as payment for…
Gender is a human creation and has been used for millennia to define the differences between the socialization of the male sexes and the female sexes.
Along with it are certain activities which each sex must strictly adhere to or be labelled “abnormal”. In Northern Nigeria like in many other places in the world,…
For centuries Northern Nigerian women have used herbs, spices and fruits, aphrodisiacs said to enhance sexual libido and bring sweetness to their marriage beds.
Kayan Mata meaning women's things or property has been passed down for generations of women to newly wedded brides. Kayan Mata's origin and use can be traced to the Northern…