Why do women’s bodies go in and out of fashion? Today, thick bodies are in. Cinched waist, a nice helping of boobs and a “perfect” ass. But a perfect ass has meant so many different things over the years. Once upon a time, big butts were a bad thing hence the over flogged comedic trope;…
Everyday Feminism
Everyday Feminism highlights feminist issues which affect women daily. We are discussing everyday discrimination, everyday violence against women, everyday inequality of the sexes.
Hot take: “dress how you want to be addressed” is a ridiculous saying. It is simply a widely accepted offshoot of respectability politics. A person’s outward appearance should have no bearing on how they're treated, especially considering how this saying and the ideology that drives it is used to further marginalise already marginalised groups and…
The concept of feminism is simple. Equal rights for women. But seeing as politics and ideologies are received differently by different people, here are a few types of feminists you will most likely encounter in your lifetime.
The NGO Feminist: They are vastly exposed with a few diplomas on their shelf. Works a high powered…
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Nigeria is home to lots of ethnic groups who lend the country rich traditions, languages and other aspects of culture like; food, music, oral poetry and clothing. Underneath the beauty of most Nigerian cultures, a lot of ethnic groups nurse discriminatory and dehumanizing practices specifically targeted at women. In the first…
“Catcalling” is permissible and encouraged when there is a need to beckon to one’s cats. Dr Seuss’s Symphony of Catcalls is also the only instance of pleasing and maybe even melodic catcalling and, even so, it is debatable that his cats could carry a tune.
Is it ever acceptable to scream obscenities at women? To…
Growing up in Nigeria, I accepted some things as truth even when they made me uncomfortable. One of such was the idea of underage house helps, most of whom were often female children brought from the village. Even though I didn't like the fact that some of my family members had underaged help and even…
The worst kind of woman is the one who devalues female friendships and parrots sexist stereotypes about women’s relationships. “One of the boys™”. Many women went through a phase in their adolescence where they felt the need to distance themselves from all things "girly", including other girls. It was a cool character trait to turn…
“Not sluts, nor saints, just women”
Women are held to higher standards than men and patronising as it sounds, it does no one any favours. A woman is to be altruistic, an adaptable version of perfect. A man? A man can scale by on the bare minimum. In public offices and general positions of authority,…
Nigeria, like most African nations, can be described as a very marriage centric country. It is often the belief that women, in particular, must marry not only as a rite of passage but also as a way of securing intergenerational wealth and an eventual status upgrade from being a Miss to a Mrs.
However, going…
Social media and Twitter in particular have been used to champion numerous causes and they have become the amplifier of the voice of the voiceless time and time again. The Nigerian government’s Twitter ban is not only in conflation with the right to freedom of expression and speech through any given medium; it is also…