In 2020, I wrote an article about the influence of Bollywood (the Indian film industry) on Kannywood (the Hausa-language film industry based in Northern Nigeria). In it, I wrote that the themes portrayed in Kannywood range from chastity, modest dressing, reserved intimacy to obedience to parents, parent-figures, husbands, and in-laws to the importance of marriage,…
In 2014, a Nigerian terrorist group, Boko Haram, kidnapped 276 girls from the Government Girls Secondary School in Chibok, Borno State in Northern Nigeria. This was particularly heart-breaking because across the country, the region is considered the least educated, ridden by related problems such as early child marriage, forced marriage, and unemployment. The lack of…
“For all the Southside niggas that know me best, I feel like me and Taylor might still have sex. Why? I made that b**** famous (goddamn) I made that bitch famous. For all the girls that got d*** from Kanye West, if you see ‘em in the streets, give them Kanye’s best. Why? They mad…
To the Arewa man I will raise one day,
When my younger brother, K, was young – maybe 4 or 5 years old – he had a shirt that said: “Real Men Wear Pink.” It was my favourite shirt of his because it made sense. It was more than just a t-shirt; it was a…
In 2013, during a conference held by Zaytuna College, Anse Dr Tamara Gray, founder of Rabata organization, delivered a lecture titled “Lean In: Our Feminist Manifesto.” In her talk, she argued that Muslims were “plagued” by the colonial period, as it was detrimental to the status of the Muslim woman. In pre-colonial West Africa, she…
In February 2017, Samina Ali, an American author and activist, was invited to speak at the University of Nevada’s TEDx event. In her speech, she answered the question people have been asking for centuries: "What does the Qur’an say about a Muslim woman’s Hijab?" She explained that during the time of Prophet Muhammad’s (S.A.W), women…
In 2020, Dua Lipa, an English singer and songwriter, released a song titled ‘Boys Will Be boys’. The song opens with one of the most iconic lines: it’s second nature to walk home before the sun goes down and put your keys between your knuckles when there are boys around. She describes moving with keys…
A few days ago, I was having a conversation with a coworker. I told her I wake up as early as 5:30, even when I don’t sleep till 3am. She smirked and made a comment about how she would have been done cooking by then. “You cook as early as 5?” I asked, genuinely dazed…
I often speak about my mother and her continuous pursuit of education even after her marriage and my father’s vehement support. They moved to Khartoum, Sudan immediately after their wedding and while he was a student of Islamic studies at the International University of Africa, she was learning Arabic. Many years and six children later,…
Two weeks ago, we launched a series called “Yashafeni”, which was aimed at educating people about mental illnesses. True to its Hausa definition, the yashafeni series hoped to spread one single message: that mental illnesses aren’t just the huge elephants in our homes; it affects you, it affects me, and it affects the world around us. In…